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Let Us Give Thanks

Let us give thanks that we made it safely up and back to Fresno without any troubles or traffic, and that the kids were pretty well behaved for the trip. Let us also give thanks that the kids and Dad were healthy for the all the Thanksgiving festivities – even though Mom is still fighting off a nasty cold/sinus infection. We had a nice, relaxing time with Brent’s family for the holidays and were well taken care of. I didn’t have to cook one thing for Thanksgiving dinner – just the way I like it! Though Jake helped make the stuffing and the pumpkin pie, which were delicious! Good thing Grandma, Grandpa, and Great Grandma were patient enough to employ his services. But really – who could turn down that cute of a Thanksgiving native? Jake sure knows how to wear a paper bag.

Let us also give thanks for the awesome football game where BYU beat Utah for the second year in a row! Go Cougs! We also enjoyed some fun family time at the park, tossed the football around, and even got a little exercise in. And I definitely need to give thanks for my sweet husband and brother-in-law, Andrew, who volunteered to camp out in the cold, overnight, on the sidewalk outside of Best Buy in an attempt to get me a super discounted white Sony (I must have white!) laptop on Black Friday. Thankfully for them, when they showed up at 11 pm for the 5 am opening – there was already a line of a few hundred people!! So I told them to come on home.

Now let us NOT give thanks for our broken fence (from the winds last month) that is apparently going to cost $1100 bucks to fix! Granted, we’ll split that with the neighbors… but still! Who wants to pay that much money for a stinky old fence? Sheesh. I will give thanks if anyone knows a cheap fence-fixer or has any advice on the matter.

I will also give BIG thanks to anyone who can tell me how to keep Jacob, my 4 year old, from wetting his pull ups every night and now often wetting his pants during the day. The kid just doesn’t care and is too busy and hyper all the time to go. We’ve tried positive reinforcement, bribery, punishment, etc. I really don’t know what else to do – and the more we bug him about it, the more he resists. So frustrating! Especially with Danny gearing up for potty training in the near future. And yes – I had made a previous attempt with Danny (Lightning McQueen underpants and all) and after one day where he purposely peed in 4 different locations of my house within 1 hour – I decided he wasn’t quite ready… Or at least I wasn’t.

And last but not least, let us give thanks for my sister Susi who gave birth to twin girls – Lucy and Ella – 2 days before Thanksgiving. Her 5th and 6th kids, both babies were slightly over 6 pounds at almost 36 weeks – though neither have been released from the hospital yet. Lucy is doing well and will come home soon. Ella, on the other hand has basically been fighting for her life – due to a few complicated factors. In short, her body is rejecting life outside the womb and just isn’t functioning like it should. Thankfully she has been stable now for a few days and is receiving constant care at a specialized hospital. She has made some slight improvements and everyone is hopeful. We know she is strong and are praying for their family.


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7 responses to “Let Us Give Thanks”

  1. Wendy Avatar

    Nice post. I have a pic of Isaac in his native outfit too. must dig it up.

    I hope your niece improves greatly.

    No advice on the potty thing, especially if you’ve already tried bribery. And my usual answer of, “Put the kid in a box until he behaves” won’t apply here either.

    I kid.

  2. Brent Avatar

    Yeah, right Wendy. But it beats my parenting style of sticking myself in the box.

  3. Yami Avatar

    Very Nice post Tami! I hope your little niece stays stable.

    -Yami

  4. Barbara Cox Avatar
    Barbara Cox

    Enjoyed reading about Thanksgiving. Great pictures.
    Love, Mom

  5. Kaci & Dave Avatar

    Tami ~

    I might have some potty training helps…at least for nighttime….it will not be something that you will want to hear…but, he will grow out of it!! Faith is 8 and just grew out of it!! She would be mortified if she knew that I was posting this, but oh, well!! Don’t stress about it until he is 6. Then take him to the doctor and they will do some routine tests, just to make sure it is nothing that they can treat. If all turns out negative, which it will, then make sure he goes potty right before bed and then you start waking him up about 2 hours after he falls asleep. Take him to the bathroom, you might have to most if not all of the work to get him there and even aiming the right direction!! This worked for Faith, we had to do it for almost 2 years, but now she has learned to do it herself. You might have to play around with the time you wake him up, for Faith we had to get her between 10:15 and 10:50pm. Any earlier and she would wet the bed in the middle of the night and any later and she was already wet.

    Bad news: because you have one like this, there could be more that have nighttime issues.
    Good news: the chances are not huge!! So far just Faith and Helaman have problems at our house. My brother only has one bedwetter out of 4.

    For the daytime thing, he will just grow out of that one too. We had one of those as well, Hyrum. He , like Faith, would be mortified if he ever knew this was on the web!! He always had accidents during the day and it was totally because he was too busy playing. He learned really fast in preschool that this was not socially acceptable behavior and it did not take long for it to stop!!

    Hang in there!!!!

    ~Kaci

  6. Katie Avatar
    Katie

    i know boys have a much harder time than girls with the dry nights. it runs in families too. unfortunately, it can be considered normal up till like age 12 or something. there are special medicines and things he can take at that point. you probably won’t get there though. i would just ignore it and stop making comments and maybe he’ll forget about how important it is to you and stop doing the opposite, as kids tend to do :). i have a hard time doing this. especially when i’m the one washing the sheets and underwear, but i know it’s true.

  7. Katie Avatar
    Katie

    another thought: i also limit liquids for my girls after 5 pm.

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