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Witty title about Aspen Grove goes here

We have been traveling of late. Some reportage concerning our recent trip is here and here on my brother’s blogs. To those unfamiliar with BYU’s Aspen Grove Family camp, it’s located just up the canyon from Sundance (Robert Redfords ski resort area). Concerning the camp itself, Tami likes to think of it as a land-locked cruise. All-you-can-eat meals are served 3 times a day, with all-day babysitting for the kids and plenty of activities packed in between for adults.

I worked there for a summer when I was going to school _8_ years ago!!. While it doesn’t feel like 8 years ago to me, I can already tell by the glazed look in my son’s eyes (and Tami’s) that it will always be ancient history to them. If we continue going back (following our families pattern, this is forecasted for 2015 — Jake will be 12) I know that they will be just as impressed then as they were this time as I pointed out the sod I laid, the pavers I sweated over, and the sprinkler lines we installed.

In my defense, my job on the ropes course was much more exciting, but doesn’t really have the tangibility of bricks. The ropes course consists of a 30 foot log that you shimmy up, followed by a 12 foot metal climbing wall. At the top you get to gambol around on some wires before you’re back to the wall to rappel down. So, while that was completely awesome for a summer job, it’s not something that anyone really appreciates except when they do it. At one point, I was the fastest person at climbing the ropes course — a blistering 13 seconds… Now, they tell me that a person (3 years ago) has the record at 8 seconds. 8 seconds, how is that even possible??? I demand another summer so that I can get in shape, with Kim and T.J. training me. Young whippersnappers breaking records, not respecting…

Did I mention that I’m going to be a cranky old person?

But this week was fun. Despite starting a family feud with a family that shan’t be named, over some shady basketball (it’s silly when you get down to it, but I doubt that our families will ever allow our children to interact socially) I thoroughly enjoyed our vacation. Of course I uttered my fair share of when-I-was-here’s and I’ll try to control myself better next time, but in my defense I was asked a lot about how things worked when I was there. Surprisingly, I recollect very little of the day to day activities and remember mainly relationships (I made some awesome friends). The family camp essentially compresses the same experience into 6 days. I don’t know how much I’ll remember about this trip in the future (besides vague recollections of a bruising basketball game) but I know that the interactions with our extended family like this was awesome for establishing and renewing our ties. We loved getting to spend time with everyone. There are plenty more pictures here.

From Tami

Top 5 Things I Learned While Vacationing at Aspen Grove:

  1. Stinging Nettles: What they look like, where they are located, and what they feel like when you run through a field of them, twirling around like an idiot, in order to recreate the opening scene from The Sound of Music. (see stupid picture above)
  2. Danny can break dance.
  3. Contrary to popular belief, neon yellow is a very flattering color – especially when worn by the Finlayson’s. Yeah, we looked GOOD.
  4. I am still afraid of heights. Brent talked me into doing the ropes course – where I actually did pretty good climbing to the top. The fun factor quickly plummeted however, when I next had to literally walk on wires through the trees about 50 feet up. My hands were shaking everytime I had to switch my carabiners from one cable to the next. Next came the supposedly fun part – rappelling back down. Well, Brent certainly made it look fun. (Let it be stated for the record that my husband is a stud – he can get down in about 1.2 huge flying leaps.) Anyways, having to lean straight back into thin air took about all the faith and concentration I could muster. Which is why I found it nearly impossible to control my own descent at the same time. WAY too much to think about. Let’s just say it wasn’t the most graceful rappel you’ve ever seen and I was extremely grateful to NOT have an audience. I am glad I did it, just so I can say I did. But will I be doing it again? Doubtful.
  5. After a week so full of family fun that it was exhausting – when it comes time to say goodbye to the people we love the most, but seem to see the least – you realize that (as my mother-in-law so accurately put it) family really is our greatest treasure. Thank you Grandma and Grandpa for a wonderful week.

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11 responses to “Witty title about Aspen Grove goes here”

  1. Brent Avatar

    1.2 jumps??! I don’t think you count stopping on a dime, 3 feet from the ground .2 of a jump. It’s one jump. Period. The last three feet is a gimme.

  2. TJ Brueseke Avatar
    TJ Brueseke

    Oh man those were the days… Brent, I hope you told your kids about the rocks that you moved from here to there and back to here again. Gotta love those Glen Projects. I definitely don’t believe that 8.8 seconds. There must have been a recording error. They really need to get a record board posted up there and establish some firm rules for when to start that timer. For the record, I’m pretty sure I still hold the shortest time for the one handed ascent… and I don’t know if anyone else has ever tried the only one hand and one foot ascent so I probably hold the record for that too.

    Some day we defineately need to get that training summer together. Hopefully it’s before we’re too old to beat our previous records.

  3. Brent Avatar

    I had completely forgotten about that Glen Project. Excellent, yet another story that I can use to annoy the fam! By the way, we learned that everyone except maintenance and of course, Ropes Course, are exempt from Glen Projects. How’s that for progress?

    Also, the guy at the top has been around for many years, said that he was the one who timed the guy getting 8 seconds. That said, I still think that it’s sketchy.

  4. jenn handy Avatar

    I still remember the day my cousin and I “discovered” stinging nettle on our family vacation. I was 8 and I think I can still feel the pain when I think about it. Looks like you guys had a fun time, glad you’re back!

  5. Jana Avatar

    That is really funny about the stinging nettles, I would totally do something like that because I have no idea what they look like.

  6. Barbara Cox Avatar
    Barbara Cox

    I want our family to go someday!! Great writing to both of you. Cute, cute pictures!

  7. Kim Dodds Avatar
    Kim Dodds

    Don’t worry Brent- Rob (the “been around for a while” guy at the top of the ropes course) doesn’t know how to count past 8. And just for the record- 2000 was definitely my favorite summer so far, except for the fact that I can now live here and enjoy the free food and babysitting without lifting a finger (besides putting together the entire closing show, that is). And, as annoying as it will always be to your family, you definitely have some solid bragging rights- heck, you’re immortalized in the History Book, and the photo in Family Lodge D, along with TJ and I! Definitely let’s get the 2 of you up here for a training summer! Bring your orange pants. It was great to see you and your family again!

  8. Brent Avatar

    The funny thing about those orange pants (I still have them) but I had forgotten about wearing them on the ropes course. But then, then when I saw Jared Knight, that’s the first thing he said to me. “Yeah, you were the guy with the orange pants.” Mmmm kay, at least I’m remember for something!

    And by the way, I ran into Lodge B on the way out and saw that it was the same picture as the one in Aspen Lodge with all of us, is there a different one in Lodge D? Do I have to make another trek out and see what sort of picture has immortalized me?

    And I wish we could have hung out more while we were up there. Why do they try to cram so many things into such a small week?

  9. Jan Avatar

    Brent, I followed you over here from facebook, thanks for the flashbacks! I was actually just as Aspen Grove this weekend with Cheryl and her family to do their family photos. Eight years, how time does fly . . . Your boys are cuties and nice to “meet” your wife through your family blog!

  10. Brent Avatar

    Yeah, it’s neat to find old friends. Thanks for stopping by Jan.

  11. Shannon Avatar

    Andrew was just saying the other day he would like to go on a cruise without the boat. I guess Aspen Grove is our place. Looks like a lot of fun.

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