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Spilling the Beans

We kept a tight lid on this secret up until about a week ago – since then, there have been a few leaks. So we’re happy to now pull the plug and share the good news…

Scout’s in the hizzy.

Nef baby #3 is on the way! Almost 12 weeks along the way, to be exact. We’ve nicknamed this baby “Scout” until at least October 1st – that’s when we should find out if we’re having a boy or a girl. Brent and I are very big on baby in the womb nicknames – Jacob was Rupert and Danny was Scooter. I think we might actually spend more time coming up with the perfect nicknames, then we do on picking the real names! 🙂 And after 2 boys, do I want a girl? Of course. But will I still be totally happy with another little boy? Of course. Anyways, my due date is February 15th – and I can’t tell you how excited I am to be big and prego in a completely different season – namely pants/sweater wearing season! No beached whales in bathing suits this time! AND – I get to eat all the good holiday food without stressing too much over weight gain, since I’m going to be gaining anyways, right?? That’s my theory.

Thankfully the timing on this pregnancy was perfect so that I was able to use it as Brent’s Father’s Day gift. Here is a picture of the card we gave him that morning, with the positive test taped inside. If you can’t see it – Jake and Danny each traced their hand and signed their name, then I added a third tiny hand print and signed, “Scout”. It’s been hard to keep this a secret for a while, especially from so many good friends and family who I know were wondering. Not to mention, apparently I’m a horrible liar, especially when it’s about something GOOD that you really WANT to tell everyone! We didn’t even tell the kids until a few days ago. But now I’m happy to spread the news so that I don’t have to be so self conscious over my expanding waistline – especially at our weekly pool play days! I’m also excited to have a belly buddy in my good friend, Chantel, who is due with her third baby just 2 days after me!

So far this pregnancy has been slightly different than the previous two. With Jake and Danny I never felt sick, or much of anything really. This time around I definitely had some nausea between weeks 7 -10, was a lot more sensitive to smells, and have had some serious food aversions/cravings. Namely Peanut Butter. Normally I’m obsessed with the stuff. I’ve been eating it straight from the jar for years now. But I suddenly couldn’t even stand the sight of it. Let alone the smell. Only in the last week have I warmed up to PB again. But only on Ritz crackers. Not on sandwiches, not out of the jar – only on Ritz crackers. Weird! I’m feeling good now, despite the usual afternoon exhaustion, and am only having to deal with what seems like massive amounts of zits. Ugh. And a few mood swings here and there. I’m still trying to keep up with my regimen at the gym – and hope my body lets me throughout this pregnancy.

Since it’s been about 3 years since the last one – I’m really excited for all the prego and baby stuff this time. The belly bump, the kicking, having cute little baby things around the house again – like tiny diapers, bottles, socks, and blankies. It’s been awhile, so I’m feeling the novelty of it all over again – except I appreciate it even more now, because I know how fast they grow! We’re all excited and hope and pray everything goes well from here on out.

I’d like to leave you with this – which really has nothing to do with the rest of the post. But Brent sent it to me this morning and it totally made me laugh, because it’s SO TRUE! I’m glad it’s not just my 4 year old…


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14 responses to “Spilling the Beans”

  1. Eve Avatar
    Eve

    TAMI! Congratulations, I am so happy for you. I am very impressed with the secret keeping, it must have been fun to have it be a secret for just the two of you.

    Congratulations again! Can’t wait to see you cute and pregnant.

  2. Wendy Avatar
    Wendy

    Congrats! That is SO exciting! yaaaaaaaaaaaaay.

  3. Chantel Avatar
    Chantel

    Hurray! I’m so excited for your family to have another little one! And you look AMAZING!

  4. Rachel Avatar

    Congrats! Smells have REALLY bugged me this pregnancy….so maybe you guys are having a girl too!

  5. Jessica Avatar

    congratulations!! how exciting. are your boys so excited? ethan is always asking me when we’re going to have baby alex. and no I’M not pregnant. he’s just really anxious to have a brother. hope you start feeling better soon! its the worst when smells bother you.

  6. Lindsay Avatar
    Lindsay

    Congrats you guys!

  7. debbie Avatar
    debbie

    CONGRATS!!!! i am so excited for you guys!

  8. Krystal Avatar
    Krystal

    Ok–so Im’ out of town and I specifially looked up your website while I’m away to see if you had any news and you did!!!! YAY! And it’s so fun to have a preggo buddy! yay for Chantel and Tami!…Now who’s next?

  9. Shannon Avatar

    Congratulations. I am so excited for you!!!! I bet your boys are just so excited.

  10. Jana Avatar

    Congrats! I am excited for you!
    Getting to eat all you want and never have to suck in you gut is for sure the best thing about pregnancy!

  11. jessica Avatar
    jessica

    Congrats again Tami and Brent! You will definitely have to have wendy do some pregnancy pictures.

  12. jenn handy Avatar

    Hooray another baby to the bunch! I’m super excited for you and family. “Scout” is one lucky baby.

  13. Alan Tong Avatar
    Alan Tong

    Brent,

    Message for you from Charles Cuenot…

    “Alan,

    It seems that you always find a good link by your relation between you and my mission in Bordeaux – It is wonderful ! Like that I am sure to be always up-dated with my former missionaries.
    Please tell to Elder Nef that I was in Pamiers/Foix two weeks ago for a family reunion and a lot of good souvenir came back to my mind. Give him a big hug from me.

    Enjoy your vacation and please come back.
    Charles”

    It was great to see you and your family recently.

    Best regards,

    Alan.

  14. Janelle Avatar

    Yay for babies! I’m so excited for you! Sorry I’m a bit late on the congrats but I’ve been gone forever! I’m so happy for you guys! Congrats congrats! And different pregnancy symptoms often mean different genders so you may get your girl this time! SO fun!

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