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It’s a Cox Thing

Well, we did it again. We loaded up the car and drove to Yosemite where we camped for a week, in the dirt, in tents, with kids – including a 5 month old. We’ve done this almost every year since we’ve been married. It’s a Cox family tradition, that has turned into a sort of annual family reunion for all of my siblings and their kids. Will we do it again? Yes. Will we do it next year? I’m thinking a big fat NO. It’s so much work, and so hard with a baby. I’m thinking we need a few years off to regroup and regather.

That said – it was great to see so much of the fam. 7 of the 9 Cox kids, plus their families, made the trek. There were almost 40 of us this year! And 23 were kids – 18 of them under the age of 10. Can you imagine the chaos? And the noise? And the mess? I don’t think you can. We actually had to use a megaphone for most of the week. But I love my big obnoxious family and wouldn’t have it any other way. And since we had such a huge group, we couldn’t resist making shirts in honor of Grandpa and this incredibly embarrassing dance he does around the fire every year. Even the kids got into it this year… I was just grateful we had no immediate neighbors.

Now, without further ado, here are the things I’d like to remember from Yosemite 2009:

  • My dad’s puppet show. The little kids helped. Let’s just say you could tell it had been a while since Grandpa had told any fairy tales. We heard some rather interesting renditions. The moral to the story of The Three Little Pigs – “Don’t build a crappy house.”
  • Singing along with my brother Dave and his guitar to Beatles tunes around the fire. I’m pretty sure all of Upper Pines was groovin to the music we provided.
  • Kenny’s impromptu dance party. All it takes is a little Michael Jackson, and next thing you know – all the kids are up and shaking their booties. And most importantly – Susi is doing the running man. I’ve always loved my little brother for getting the party started.
  • Breaking off from the rest of the group for the last half of the 8 mile Panorama Trail hike. It’s been a long time since me and my hubby got to spend 2 hours alone together, walking, talking, holding hands, enjoying amazing scenery, and COMPLETE QUIET. Thank you babysitters!
  • Mayonnaise toast. Something Brent and I had the pleasure of tasting – thanks to Barb for storing mayonnaise in the “I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter” container…
  • Seeing the Cox family pull together in a tough situation. My sister-in-law Kaci has advanced cancer, developed a fever a few days in, and had to be rushed back to a hospital several hours away. Their van broke down on the way up – so between my parents and the fam we volunteered two cars, took down their tent, packed up their gear, and drove them, their 6 kids, and all their stuff all the way back home to Sacramento. Talk about team work.
  • Relaxing by the river and watching everyone try to one up each other by swimming/diving/flipping into the ICE COLD water.
  • Brent crashing to the floor when the camping chair he was sitting in suddenly gave way. HA! Sorry to the owners of the navy blue Sports Authority chair. May it rest in peace.

Other highlights would include eating ice cream cones, sleeping in super snuggly warm sleeping bags, taking the boys and their buddy cousins Joseph and James to the Indian Village and Museum, paper plate awards, and watching Jake and Danny complete their first real hike. They are good little campers. They even had their own tent this year.

Now, here are the things I’d like to forget:

  • the dirt.
  • the lingering stench.
  • the toilet paper.
  • the chaos.
  • the mud and mosquitoes. (thanks to the stream running behind our campsite)
  • the lack of showers.
  • the spiders.
  • the hairy legs. (mine, not the spiders…)

Thanks to everyone for making the trip. We love you all. See more pictures here.

Tatonka.

Comments

19 responses to “It’s a Cox Thing”

  1. Brent Avatar

    Really there must have been some sort of plastic fatigue in that chair. It’s not like I’m THAT fat.

  2. Brent Avatar

    Also, should have pointed out that:
    * Jake jumped/stepped/fell in the river once a day… Only needed to change his clothes the first two days.
    * Danny would spill any beverage given to him in an average of 2.2 minutes.

  3. Eve Avatar
    Eve

    Your boys are so lucky to have a fun camper mama – mine will not be so fortunate.

  4. Barbara Cox Avatar
    Barbara Cox

    Cute, cute, cute!! What a great history of the week. thanks so much for documenting everything. and thanks for all your planning. And thanks to Brent for the great t shirt design. And thanks to Mark for getting it printed. Yes, I am tired and think I will never do it again. But-like childbirth-given a little time I am sure we will!
    Mom

  5. megan Avatar
    megan

    Tam. I loved reading your post it really explained the entire trip pretty well. I was feeling the craziness through your post! haha. We all had a lot of fun and you got some really cute pictures. Yes like childbirth im sure we will forget and do it again soon. your mom is amazing there is no way my mom could do that for that long. thanks for doing all the fun planning to. can’t wait till next time! well maybe I can. haha

  6. Tami Avatar
    Tami

    Family: What is with the lack of comments?? come on – i know you are all reading this. i took the time to document this – now give me a pat on the back…

    you’re killin me smalls!

  7. Amanda Avatar
    Amanda

    Tami- I LOVE that you will go camping with a newborn…I would do the same and complain the whole time, but not miss a big family gathering for the world!!! I imagine that my blog will go without some TLC once my newborn is born..thanks for the pics! Love ya, Amanda

  8. Barbara Cox Avatar
    Barbara Cox

    What great pictures! I finally had a chance to look at all of them. They are great and precious! Thanks you so much to going to all the trouble to post them all Great camera! Great photographer!! You are a great family history doer. I sure appreciate it.

  9. Brent Avatar

    For those subscribed, Tami just updated this post with a bit about toast and mayonnaise…

    I just had to make a comment about the irony of storing Mayonnaise in the “I can’t believe it’s not butter” container, but really it makes perfect sense. You can’t put butter in there. It says it right on the label. Still. Mayonnaise toast was definitely weird.

  10. Jennifer Wyeth Avatar

    Your family is HUGE!!! Holy crap! I can’t believe it! The Cox’s are taking over the freaking world!!!

  11. Kenny and Jane Avatar
    Kenny and Jane

    Nice, well the video is up!

  12. Kenny and Jane Avatar
    Kenny and Jane

    ps. i swiped some pictures for the video.

  13. Ellen Avatar
    Ellen

    i love that LJ has her very own mini t-shirt. so cute!! oh, and Brent, nice camera work! the half-dome pics are amazing!

  14. Ruth Avatar
    Ruth

    Hey, just an update on the “Behavior Balls,” they are working like a charm. Thanks for the great idea!

  15. Jennifer Wyeth Avatar

    They’re only moving 10 minutes from here… not really moving “away”; just out of the neighborhood. But Kevin and Abby are moving to Poway next weekend. Bummer for us but AWESOME for them.

  16. Alyse Avatar
    Alyse

    You are quite the woman to take 3 kids to Yosemite! Wow! Major Props! It sounds like you guys had quite the trip! And Yes, it does just seem like we were having Quin’s farewell…I can’t believe it was so long ago…9 years! While I was in Colorado, I found pics from the farewell…good times!

  17. marion Avatar
    marion

    I agree with Brent, the mayonnaise toast thing sounds really weird something right up Koki’s Alley 😉

    You are a way better camper than me. I’ve gonna need to get pointers from you for the next time I go.

    1. Brent Avatar

      See, I could see Koki knowing it was mayonnaise and still eating it… As wierd as it sounds, I thought it was butter… until I tasted it. Then I thought the butter had gone bad. I didn’t find out it was mayonnaise until a day or two later.

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