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And the Award Goes To…

Brent… and Cristina! You were the only two who voted for a Feb. 11th birthday. Not sure what you win… besides bragging rights. If you hadn’t already heard, Lindsay Joanne Nef was born Wednesday at 8:10pm. She weighed 6 lbs. 13.5 oz. and was 19 inches long. My doctor predicted she’d be almost a pound smaller than my boys and that she’d be fast – she was right! I had regular contractions starting at 7 am on Wed. morning. We checked into the hospital at about 5:30pm with me at a 4 – 5 and seriously uncomfortable. Bring on the epidural!! Problem is, it takes a while to actually GET the epidural, so by the time Dr. Happy showed up I was WRITHING in pain. Ugh. I shudder just thinking about it.

This was the furthest I’ve ever gotten without meds – and man it was BAD. At times I thought I was going to throw up, pass out, cry, or let out one of those horror movie screams. Instead I thrashed around in the bed, whimpered, said “Freak” a lot, squeezed the heck out of Brent’s hand, and begged for drugs. It was almost 7pm and I think I was dilated to an 8 by the time things finally went numb – or at least numb enough. Thank goodness I didn’t have to go without. I don’t know how or WHY anyone does. (Ellen – get the epidural!)

At 8pm the nurse comes in and says ok let’s do a practice push and see if you can move the baby. I push once, she panics, says STOP the baby is right there, runs into the hall, comes back with some random midwife cuz the doc is delivering another baby next door and they don’t have time to find another one. She scrambles to get some gloves on, I push once, twice, and baby is out! 3 pushes total. This is where my mind hears the mailman from Mr. Rogers saying, “Speedy Delivery!”

We think Lindsay Jo is practically perfect in every way. She’s cute, mellow, and so warm and snuggly! I can see both Jake and Danny in her, but she’s got her own look. Not to mention a perfectly round little head that I love. Brent envisioned her blonde and blue – I think he might win that bet too. (You’re on a roll, dear.) Other good news: LJ seems to be diggin a pacifier so far. The boys always hated them. Might be nice for a change… though I’d be lying if I didn’t say that all I can see is Maggie Simpson every time she sucks on it.

We came home from the hospital yesterday afternoon, a whopping 18 hours after giving birth. We barely had time to squeeze in a few family pictures and our traditional Pizza Hut hospital picnic. Easy and fast delivery = easy and fast recovery! The boys fight over Lindsay like she’s a shiny new toy. Jake especially seems to be smitten with “his baby” and rarely leaves her side. If anyone wants to come by for a visit, just give us a call! I’ll decide whether you’re worth changing out of my pajamas. And thanks to everyone for the well wishes. We are counting our blessings and feeling the love for our growing family this Valentine’s Day.


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17 responses to “And the Award Goes To…”

  1. jennifer handy Avatar

    Congrats!!!! She is adorable and having done it twice without and twice with….GET THE EPIDURAL Ellen! Enjoy LJ, as you know, they grow up fast and I will be coming by to get some baby girl time, it’s been a while….

  2. Eve Avatar
    Eve

    Okay, you and Lindsay make a gorgeous pair. I can’t believe how rested you look.

    I can’t imagine what an 8 feels like. I got to 6-7 and my hearts only desire was to say a word much worse than frick. I restrained myself, only for my mom to tell me later that she wouldve understood. Ah, the wasted opportunity.

  3. Wendy Avatar
    Wendy

    Tami you look so beautiful and I’m so proud of you! Eve you make me laugh.

  4. Janelle Avatar

    Congrats again you guys! Tami I can’t believe how gorgeous you look! Your hair is all done and your in cute clothes and makeup and I think I’m gonna barf! I’m in jammies non-stop (even when visitors come by) for the first week or two! Not because I’m feeling miserable but it’s incredibly depressing for me to put my maternity clothes back on and nothing else quite fits! You look great! Lindsay is SO beautiful and I love the boys faces! You can see how much you all adore her! So fun!

  5. Jana Avatar
    Jana

    So cute and tiny in her car seat!
    Congrats on the easy labor, man what I wouldn’t pay for one of those… Unfortunately no matter how much easier this one will be for me I don’t think any 9 pounder is going to slide out like a 6 pounder. Oh well, C’est la vie. I hopefully will make up for that by not having to wait until I am dilated to an 8! I couldn’t make it past 3 1/2 with Carmen, so I can’t really imagine that pain.
    Good job mommy!

  6. Alyse Avatar
    Alyse

    Ohhh…she is just so precious and I love the pacifier picture! That’s awesome she’s taking one! And hello…you look so good after just having a baby! What is your secret?! Congratulations! I’m so happy for you guys!

  7. megan Avatar
    megan

    Tami!!!!!! SHe is adorable and believe me I see a lot of babies. She is one of the cuter ones. She looks like she has a fair amount of hair. I can’t wait to see her in person, I don’t know when that will be but hopefully soon. Sounds like labor went pretty fast for ya thats good. I started laughing my head off at the part about u thrashing in bed because I see it everyday. You descibed the reaction perfectly. I hope all is going well for you and I hope you get some sleep at least while your mom is there to help. Hopefully we can be the next to announce we are having a cute one like u. lots of love meg and ted

  8. debbie Avatar
    debbie

    congrats to your family… she is beautiful!!! i am so happy you had an easy delivery.

  9. Krystal Avatar
    Krystal

    Your boys look soo elated to have her here. So cute. I forgot until recently that I’m going to have kids interested in the baby this time. Allison was 2 and kinda left Cole alone when he was born. You sure make cute kids…I’m sure she’ll grow up to be just as beautiful as her mommy 🙂

  10. Barbara Cox Avatar
    Barbara Cox

    Such a precious little girl from Heaven! Thanks for letting me share this special time.

  11. Shannon Avatar
    Shannon

    Tami you look hot. You did your hair so nice to come home. Your little girl looks so beautiful. I can’t wait to meet her. And since I went all the way without the epidural…NOT MY CHOICE…I still shudder when I think of that pain and when I think that I actually let out that movie horror scream. I am glad you finally got the epidural. See you soon and you can leave the pjs on.

  12. Joanne Avatar

    Curse you Tami and your easy labors! …..I’m just jealous:) She is very cute…just like her namesake 🙂 Can’t wait to become her favorite aunt!

  13. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    Holy cute!!! cute baby girl!!!! Tami… looks so good after just having a baby. I look like i got thrown through a wind tunnel… or something to that affect. You guys are such an adorable family!

  14. jessica Avatar
    jessica

    She is so cute and tiny! Addie was that same weight and I can’t believe she was ever that little. I am going through my girls clothes this week, so I am sure I will have more to pass along to you.

  15. Jennifer Wyeth Avatar
    Jennifer Wyeth

    YEAH! Congrats. You are going to LOVE LOVE LOVE having a girl. It’s like playing dress up every day! BTW, I love Addi’s Valentines shirt too. Bryan makes fun of me because it’s my favorite one. 🙂 Enjoy that baby girl… they get feisty REAL fast.

  16. katie brown Avatar
    katie brown

    sorry to be so late on the congrats! i’m so glad you got the epidural! i’ve gone both ways and the epidural is definitely the winner! too bad they couldn’t get it to you earlier.

  17. […] A year ago today, around this time, I was in a hospital room watching Lost with my hour old baby girl sleeping in my arms. Her delivery was so quick and so easy – she was born around 8:30 pm – that everyone was out of my room to leave us alone by 9. Just in time for my favorite show! Too bad I was so elated to have a DAUGHTER that I had a hard time concentrating on anything else… even Sawyer. 🙂 One year later and I am still so elated to have that little girl. I often find myself just watching her with a big goofy grin on my face for long stretches of time… […]

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